Hey, Mama! Thanks for dropping by. I’m Carol, a stay-at-home mom of two adorable girls, living the island life. You might assume that living in such a picturesque location leaves me with little to complain about. However, just like you, I face a lot of challenges in my journey as a mom.
Before I became a mother, I devoted almost a decade of my life to the corporate world, with the majority of my experience in the hotel industry. Eventually, I made the decision to leave my corporate job and pursue my passion for cooking by enrolling in culinary school. Using my new skills, I started a small food business.
However, life took an unexpected turn when I became pregnant. Given the challenges of my pregnancy at the time, I had to stop my business and focus on the journey to motherhood. A few months after welcoming my first daughter, we relocated to Camotes Island, a charming spot just off the coast of Cebu, Philippines.
My journey through motherhood has been filled with surprises. I attended a childbirth class to prepare for the delivery of my first child, and it proved immensely helpful. However, I was unprepared for the challenges of postpartum. Without realizing it, I navigated through postpartum depression and anxiety, simply going through the motions of being a first-time mom.
Moving to the island after becoming a mom brought its share of ups and downs. We made the move just before the pandemic hit in 2020, and although we didn’t feel its impact due to our comfortable living space and the natural surroundings, I experienced a sense of isolation. Unable to travel and connect with family and friends, I unknowingly continued to struggle with postpartum challenges.
Two years later, after giving birth to my second child, my postpartum challenges resurfaced, and my emotional needs remained unmet. I felt lost in motherhood, struggling mentally and emotionally, reacting in ways that weren’t helpful, and constantly stuck in fight-or-flight mode.
Determined to be a better mother and give my children the best, I set goals for health, wellness, and personal growth—unaware that I was embarking on a holistic self-care journey.
My journey as a mother is all about constant growth.
I’ve learned the power of self-care, which guided me back to myself after losing my way in the relentless demands of motherhood. Through self-discovery, I went from merely going through the motions to truly thriving, embracing the journey to becoming the best version of myself.
I’m here to share these lessons with fellow moms, offering support and encouragement through the ups and downs.
Join me in this space where I share the real side of motherhood—the good, the tough, and the journey of personal growth and self-love.
The journey of motherhood is overwhelming, especially for first-time moms. The emotional and mental weight can feel unbearably heavy, leaving you lost in confusion, sometimes questioning your own sanity.
Having experienced this firsthand, I wish I had the tools and support to navigate those challenging times. I wish I had a community that understood and supported my journey. If only I had known what to expect, I could have faced it with strength and confidence.
I’ve always been independent, but I was also burdened with guilt, so I kept my struggles to myself. Looking back, I wished I seeked therapy or talked to a friend about my experiences. I wouldn’t have carried the burden of guilt alone and would have had the support I needed.
Now, I want to share my experiences with you, so you don’t have to go through this alone. I understand the pain and want to help by sharing my journey, hoping it will make yours a bit easier.
I’m on a mission, to share my real-life experiences so moms like you don’t have to suffer in silence.
I don’t want you to feel alone on your motherhood journey like I did when I became a first-time mom. I’m here to tell you the honest, unfiltered stories of being a mom, from the emotional roller coasters to the joyful moments.
I’m here to help you discover your strengths and find balance, wellness, and joy, even in the chaos. I want to be your source of inspiration that encourages you to explore your passions and continually grow in this role.
I’m creating a cozy, friendly space where moms like us can connect, share stories, and lift each other up. Together, let’s build strong relationships in our community, supporting one another through every step of motherhood.
I’m creating a nurturing space where moms like you can find the support, information, and empowerment needed to prioritize your mental wellness and embrace self-care as a vital part of your motherhood journey. My goal is to equip you with the tools, guidance, and encouragement to focus on your well-being, promoting balance, resilience, and personal growth within our supportive community.
This space is where the ups and downs of motherhood are shared, celebrated, and understood. By following IslanderMomLife, you become part of a community dedicated to taking care of yourself and becoming the best version of ‘you.’
I’m here to uplift and empower fellow moms like you, by sharing inspiring stories, offering motivation, and showing how we can not only survive, but thrive in our unique roles. Together, we’ll share simple tips and heartwarming stories that brighten your days, making this your go-to spot for feeling happier, learning, and caring for yourself.
In this community, we embrace our imperfections, cheer for each other’s successes, and navigate the beautiful chaos of motherhood side by side.
Follow my journey for a daily dose of motherhood, self-care, and island life—where every post and conversation is a tribute to the strength, resilience, and beauty of being a mom.
Come join us and be part of something special. Let’s embrace this journey together and support one another every step of the way!
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