I’m Carol, an Island Mama navigating postpartum mental health challenges, identity loss, and the emotional overwhelm that often comes with becoming a mom. Somewhere between caring for everyone else and adjusting to this new chapter, I lost touch with parts of myself—my confidence, my ambitions, and the woman I once knew.
For a while, I thought I needed to find my way back to who I was before motherhood. But I eventually realized that the goal wasn’t to go back. It was to rebuild. To understand who I was becoming and make space for the parts of me that still mattered. For me, self-care became the foundation for that journey. A way to slow down, listen to myself, and begin finding my way back.
Here, I share honest motherhood stories, lessons from my journey, and practical tools to help you reconnect with yourself, rebuild your confidence, and make space for the woman behind “Mom.”
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Come along as I share the real, messy, and beautiful parts of motherhood, life, and finding myself again. Through my stories, reflections, and lessons, I hope you’ll find something that speaks to you and supports you on your journey.
These are the tools and resources I’ve discovered and used throughout my journey of self-care, healing, and rediscovering myself. I’m sharing what’s helped me along the way and hope you’ll find something here that helps you, too.
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